Getting from A to B: Overcoming the Daunting Gap

We’ve all been there. You set a big, ambitious goal that lights you up inside, but when it’s time to take action, point B feels so far away that you’re paralysed at point A. Yesterday, during a coaching call, I shared my own trepidation about some of the big goals I’ve set for myself, and the conversation uncovered a perspective that I want to share with you.

The truth is, getting from A to B is rarely, if ever, a straight line. Life doesn’t work that way. Obstacles, detours, and unexpected challenges are part of the journey. But none of that matters if you adopt a mindset of progress over perfection.

During the call, my coach reminded me of a quote often attributed to General Norman Schwarzkopf: “Plans are useless, but planning is essential.” The message? While no plan will ever unfold exactly as envisioned, the act of planning prepares you to adapt and take action. The only thing you truly need to do to move forward is to identify the best next step and take it.

Big goals often feel overwhelming because we focus too much on the vast distance between where we are and where we want to be. Instead, we need to narrow our focus to the next actionable step. When you’ve taken that step, identify the next one – and then the next. Progress happens one step at a time.

Consistency is the secret weapon here. Small, consistent actions compound over time to create significant results. Think of it this way: if you never leave point A, you’ll never reach point B. But each small step moves you closer to your goal and builds the momentum you need to keep going.

Taking stock of your progress at regular intervals is equally important. Pausing to reflect allows you to course correct, celebrate how far you’ve come, and re-align with your ultimate destination. It’s not about perfection; it’s about persistence.

This approach also works wonders when dealing with “writer’s block” or “analysis paralysis.” Both are rooted in fear – fear of getting it wrong, fear of imperfection, or fear of failure. But remember, inaction guarantees you’ll stay stuck. Moving forward, even imperfectly, is always better than standing still.

So as we step into 2025, let’s embrace the messiness of the journey. Let’s identify our big, bold goals, acknowledge the challenges ahead, and commit to action. Start by asking yourself: what is the best next step I can take today? Then take it.

Here’s to making 2025 our best year yet – for you and for me!